I will never forget the day I learned my father was a narcissist.
My mother woke me up early, while my father was on a business trip, and said “we’re going to the airport and taking a plane to Denver, and we aren’t coming back.”
In less than 10 seconds, the life and security I’d known for 14 years collapsed around me. I was totally alone, with no hope things would be okay.
It was the most traumatic day of my life.
But looking back, I realize it was the only choice my mother had.
My father was very abusive. The kind that makes you feel like shrinking to the size of an ant, crawling under a rock and never coming out.
But since I grew up with it, I didn’t know any different.
It’s strange though: everyone who knows my father doesn’t think of him that way. To most people he’s just a nice, well-meaning and ordinary guy.
So why did we flee halfway across the country from him?
I know now that’s because he’s a narcissist.
Unlike other abusers, narcissists work behind the scenes and never in the open. They emotionally threaten and scare you into doing what they want.
They use fear, guilt, and shame to weaken you and force you under their control.
Do you know someone who makes you feel like this? If so, you know that awful feeling doesn’t go away after the abuse: it cripples you for the rest of your life.
What’s worse is that anything can trigger that feeling at any time, and re-open those old wounds again.
But they don’t have to be your parent to hurt you, as in my case. They can be your boss, coworker, friend, sibling or spouse.
That’s what makes narcissists so dangerous: they’re usually the people closest to you. They “hide in plain sight” so you don’t even know they’re hurting you.
And you probably won’t know it’s happening, just that all of sudden you lack confidence, feel horrible about yourself and can’t do anything right… and there’s no hope of getting away.
It isn’t rare either: it’s happening all the time—and I bet you’ve been, or currently are, a victim to it.
And unless you know exactly what narcissists do and can identify them, you’ll never know they’re ruining your life. But you’ll always feel it, like a poison running through your entire body.
I’m going to take you inside this person’s head, so you can see what they’re doing and remove them from your life. Then they can’t hurt you anymore.
Which is why on this page, I’m going to share with you the 3 most important signs of a narcissist - so that you can spot a narcissist and get away before the abuse starts, or identify one you’re wondering about right now.
I spent the first 14 years of my life in an emotionally abusive home.
But even though I got away, the crippling damage was already done.
The deep scars from that abuse hurt for years… through unhealthy habits like continuing to associate with abusive people… and damaging self-talk I had learned from my father.
But you can be prepared where I wasn’t. If my mother had known what the problem was and what was in store for us, she would have gotten me and my brothers out of the situation a lot sooner.
And if she had known this one trait that narcissists can’t hide, we would have escaped before it was too late.
A narcissist doesn’t care about you, only cares about themselves and deliberately makes you feel bad about yourself.
There are no exceptions. Narcissists cannot tolerate others feeling good—they only feel good when you feel bad.
They make disturbing threats and scare you to death because it makes them feel powerful and in control. Your problems aren’t important—you’re just a landfill for them to dump their problems.
They even like it: it makes them feel good to hurt you. And they won’t stop until you’re a dried husk crawling on the floor.
You may be wondering if only intimate relationships apply. The truth is narcissists can be anyone.
A friend, coworker or even a family member may have this disorder—as in my case.
But no matter who they are, they always make you feel bad about yourself. That’s their greatest weapon—undermining your self-confidence.
But the way they do it is so subtle that most people miss it.
Want to hear something surprising? The American Psychiatric Association published the latest edition of its manual on mental disorders in 2013, and narcissism isn’t in it!
Strange how some of the most dangerous people you'll ever meet—for several reasons I’m going to show you—aren't in this manual.
I’ve collected everything I’ve learned about narcissists—from how they think to what they do and why—into a new guide The 16 Signs of a Narcissist.
Within its pages, I’ll show you:
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As you can see, this isn’t a packet of fluff. It’s a comprehensive personal guide to identifying and understanding narcissists - unlike any other - so you can protect yourself from them.
It isn't a substitute for a doctor’s diagnosis. I'm not a psychiatrist.
But I do know a narcissist when I see one, and I sure as heck don’t want the same thing that happened to me to happen to you.
And I’m willing to bet 99% of psychiatrists haven’t lived with even one narcissist—or have half the firsthand experience I do dealing with them.
So you know narcissists are subtle—they use covert tactics to control you.
They’re so good at staying hidden they fool most people… so you have to look with a critical eye to see it’s happening.
The key is noticing what they do and not what they say.
Telltale Sign #2 is they must be in contact with you most or all of the time.
Narcissists use talk to control you.
They brainwash you into believing they’re good people who can be trusted and respected.
And talk is the only thing that opens you up and allows you to be influenced by them… without being suspicious of their intentions.
They love to establish themselves as an authority in your life—so you'll regularly confide in them.
Full self-disclosure opens you up to their controlling tactics, and that’s when the abuse starts.
They must also be in constant communication with you because they’re dependent.
They need you to feel safe.
And they’ll do anything to make sure they look independent to everyone on the outside, including you.
Starting to sound familiar? Well...
I hate bragging, but this is the absolute best resource for recognizing and understanding narcissists in the world.
I've known these people my whole life and lived with them most of that time.
I’ve been in the trenches, I’ve felt the insecurity and doubt—and I'm recovering from it.
Few people have the experience I do. Fewer still took that experience and learned from it, sharing that knowledge with others in the same situation.
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This isn’t a doctor’s diagnostic criteria you can find anywhere, or a lofty academic paper.
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It’s a practical way of identifying and protecting yourself from their abuse, and the only one in existence specifically designed for narcissistic abuse.
You can’t just read about narcissistic abuse: you have to experience it from someone else’s perspective—then relate it to your own life.
It’s the only way you’ll understand your abuse, and that’s exactly what I’m going to do for you.
You won’t just read it, you’re going to feel it and instantly see how it applies to your own situation.
I had to write it like this because it’s the only way you’ll understand this material—and what you’re going through.
Then, you'll get out of your situation as soon as possible.
So when it comes to real-world insider experience, listen to someone who knows what it feels like to be a constant victim of narcissistic abuse everyday… because they’ve experienced it all before.
It’s exactly what you would tell yourself after a bad experience with a narcissist—before you suffer untold abuse and pain.
It’s information from someone just like you, for you. Someone who was in the same situation you’re in and beat it, and now you will too.
But unlike me, you can stop it now before the abusive cycle starts—or stop it if it’s already started.
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Suddenly, your world will turn upside-down. People won’t be who you thought they were at all.
It’s going to shock you and take some getting used to.
It’s also extremely life changing and liberating. You’ll feel overwhelmed by the new power and control you have over your life.
But if someone’s manipulating you, you’ll go “inside” their head and know for sure - like a crystal ball showing you what they’re thinking.
And it’s not available anywhere else, because no one like me has written about narcissists "from the inside" before.
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For me it was 15 years of emotional abuse and growing up in an unstable household… not to mention the time I spent learning the fact afterwards—and all the pain and trauma that accompanied it.
It gets worse. Even when you get away from a narcissist, they can pursue you relentlessly… for years.
After we began to build a life in Colorado, my father pursued us—and defamed my mother to family and friends for further isolation.
So I can’t put a price on what I’ve gone through living with narcissists.
But you will get away - and start building a better life for yourself - without going through the pain, agony and emotional trauma I did.
I’m asking $29 for The 16 Signs.
And that’s only what you invest if it helps you identify and get away from your narcissist. If it doesn’t, it’s yours free.
I’ve carefully worked through each sign and equipped you with everything I’ve learned living with these people.
I’ve printed the manipulative tactics of every narcissist on the planet into a 160-page personal guide—almost like you’re reading their minds.
I hand you the tools you need right now to defend yourself and get away.
Then, I give you the long-term outlook you need to protect yourself forever, so you’ll live a happier life without narcissists messing with it.
After you download The 16 Signs of a Narcissist, examine it carefully. You must feel it’s the best personal guide for identifying narcissists and protecting you from their evil behavior you’ve ever read.
You must be 100% satisfied and feel that it's easily worth more than 10x your investment—or you must take your money back, at any time in the future.
I’m serious—if at any time you decide it just isn’t for you or that it doesn’t accomplish what I promise it does, you must take your money back—no questions asked.
If it doesn’t help you with your narcissistic abuser, I don’t want your money and I’m putting it back in your wallet.
Keep The 16 Signs free with my thanks, even if you decide to get a refund, as my gift to you for trying it out.
That way, you risk absolutely nothing when you try it.
But before you do, you need to know the third and most important telltale sign.
You need to know this last, crucial piece of advice.
It’s narcissists never change.
If you think you know a narcissist, do not tell him or her—it will only cause disaster.
They’ll deny the accusation, label you as hostile and use it to force you back under their control.
They may even become physically dangerous.
You’ll have played your best card right up front, and all for nothing.
You may think that you can communicate with them about the problem, but you can’t. Narcissists only appear as rational people.
You cannot change who they are—because they cannot accept who they are or what they do.
You can only get away from them.
And even when you do, you can fall right back into the same trap again with another narcissist, because you didn't learn the first time around.
The only way to improve your situation is to learn to recognize their behavior, so you can avoid it forever.
But in order to take that next step and regain control of your life, you have to act on proven information—and I’d love to help you with this incredible resource.
And even if you decide to get a refund for any reason (or no reason at all), you’ll get to keep it—along with all of the information.
You’ll only be the better for it.
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It’ll only make sense to you if you’re with - or know - a narcissist. And you should only invest in it if you are.
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10 Traits of the Narcissist
The Narcissist’s Psyche
Narcissists in Conversation
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